MMGM: Small Stakes, Big Heart: A 'Quiet Stories' Review of 'Honey and Me

 

One of the many books I discovered while homeschooling was All of a Kind Family. This beautiful book tells the story of five Jewish sisters who grew up in 1912. I loved all the details of their life, especially how they left a place for Elijah at the Passover seder. It was these simple, low-stakes moments that drew me to this story.

 

It reminded me of a project I did in college for my education degree. I visited a synagogue to immerse myself in that culture. The ladies let me join them in making hamantaschen for Purim. When they were explaining about the holiday, I said, “Oh, that’s the book of Esther!” 

What I found interesting when I read the back matter for Honey and Me was that Meira Drazin was inspired to write a book like Ballet Shoes, Anne of Green Gables, and The Penderwicks, but about a Jewish family:

 “I wondered if I could do what these writers all do so beautifully—show the importance and magnitude of small dramas in everyday life—but with contemporary Jewish characters.”--Meira Drazin

Synopsis: 

Milla and Honey have been best friends since forever.

Milla envies Honey’s confidence, her charisma, and her big, chaotic family―especially when they provide a welcome escape from Milla’s own small family and quiet house. In their close-knit Jewish community, the two girls do everything together, from delivering meals to an ill-tempered elderly neighbor to shopping at a local thrift store, celebrating the holidays, and going to their first bat mitzvahs while studying for their own.

So when Honey joins Milla’s school for sixth grade, why is it not as great as Milla expected? Can their friendship survive all the ups and downs the year has in store for them? And will Milla ever find the courage to step out of Honey’s shadow and into her own spotlight?

Charming, authentic, and wise, Honey and Me is a classic coming-of-age story filled with relatable middle school struggles, keen insight, and sparkling humor. (from Amazon)

 

Why This Book Stays With Me:

1.    A friendship that feels real. I loved how Milla and Honey have their ups and downs, although they are always loyal to each other. Drazin did such a marvelous job of creating a real friendship, where a good friend tells the truth, sometimes gets jealous, and doesn't always understand you perfectly.

2.    An insight into Orthodox Judaism. Other than All of a Kind Family and some Chaim Potok, I know very little about Orthodox Judaism. I appreciated that Drazin has a glossary in the back for readers who might be unfamiliar with phrases and practices of Orthodox Judaism. As a person whose Christian faith is central to my life, I enjoyed seeing this tight-knit culture portrayed warmly and respectfully. 

3.    The mother-daughter relationship with Milla. Milla's relationship with her mother and her tendency to put Honey’s family on a pedestal are very real and relatable. How she and her mother worked through this was also beautifully depicted. 

4.    Small stakes that were engaging. Like The Penderwicks series and other “small stakes” novels, I kept reading because Drazin shows us that even these small things have meaning. Winning a speech contest might not feel as significant as traveling the world or stopping a nefarious bad guy, but it feels real to Honey and Milla, so it did to me, too. And I was reminded that the small moments in my life are important.

5.    Incredible secondary characters. This book had a huge cast, but two characters really stood out to me: Ageneni, a grandma-like figure who reads children’s books and speaks her mind, and Mr. Sandler, a very special English teacher.

Reading Guide: This book would appeal to 8-12-year-olds as a Morning Time read-aloud and independent readers at the 5th-grade reading level and above. A small note for sensitive readers: there is the loss of a beloved adult near the end of the story. It is handled with great heart, but it may be a moment you'll want to walk through together.

Max’s take (out of a 5 bone scale)

Max, the Reading Dog

 

 

 

 

 

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No dogs again! Ugh! And Mom was reading for a long time. 

Notes from the Front Porch:

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