Wednesday, September 1, 2021

ISWG: Not Losing Your Enthusiasm

That is one of my favorite quotes. It’s got me through the long, sometimes discouraging days, of writing. Initially, I expected, like a lot of newbies, to sell my first novel—and in record time. Perhaps it was because my first writing teacher often told stories of students who’d followed her advice and sold their books quickly.

I would be one of them.

But my writing journey has been slow and meandering instead. It was often interrupted by life, like children, family health issues, and jobs. Those things might have sidetracked me for awhile, but they always ended up enriching my writing.

Yet, I’ve had some success. I’ve had my work published in well respected children’s magazines and anthologies. When I finally had a piece of fiction published that felt like a major milestone.

I still don’t have a book published, but that is okay. I am still working that.

Perhaps this is just a way to soothe my ego, but I no longer gauge my success by whether or not I’m published. I look at whether I’m improving at my craft.

And that isn’t measured by whether I’ve gotten a bunch of books in the mail. Although I look forward to that day…

I feel successful because:

1.      People (critique partners and others) enjoy reading what I write.  

2.      I have been published—even if it’s only a few times.

3 .    I enjoy writing, and I’m taking steps towards my ultimate goal: seeing a novel-length project in print. Many people say they want to write, but never even start.

4.     I usually get “good” (a.k.a. encouraging) rejections when I send my work out there. I used to keep a file of all the good feedback I got from editors/agents. It keeps my spirits up.

5.     I use what I’ve learned from writing in my teaching (a.k.a. my day job). I’ve shared my rough drafts with students and encouraged creative students to pursue writing. It’s my way of paying it forward to the teacher who encouraged me in fourth grade.

How about you? What makes you feel like you’ve arrived as a writer?

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  1. I'm a slow writer too because of family and job responsibilities, and I'm okay with that. These days I'm measuring success by my own enjoyment in the process and taking the rest day by day.

  2. I like your fifth reason!
    Slow writer - I identify.

  3. That is a great quote, although I'm struggling with a severe loss of enthusiasm at the moment. 😕 Definitely something I need to work on. LOL

  4. Congratulations on having your short stories published! That definitely counts as success. With your positive attitude, you'll get that novel published for sure. Greetings from a fellow (former) teacher, and happy writing in September.

  5. Great list. And I love Churchill's quote, but my favorite quote about success is by William Feather:
    "Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go."

  6. Hi,
    I love your quote from Winston Churchill. I read a book about successful people who had once been failures and how they bounced back and had success b because of their failures. I think to maintain enthusiasm is a key motivator is moving forward.

    Shalom aleichem,
    Pat G @ EverythingMustChange

  7. Enjoy every little milestone. Sounds like success to me!

  8. One of the most important facts you shared is that a lot of people want to write, but never start. Just sitting down to write - whenever or how often that may be - is an accomplishment. It's not easy. The dedication and the sacrifice usually goes unseen by others. They only end up seeing the finished product once publication is achieved.

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